Lately, I have quite a number of clients coming to me for help as porn is affecting their real sexual life. Many are finding that they have difficulty getting aroused in front of a real woman but can wank off easily with porn. Others also reported on symptoms like:
- Inability to concentrate at work
- Feeling agitated and anger easily
- Premature ejaculation
- Lost interest in their partners
- Low energy
- Sensitivity of penis decreases
- Low self esteem
I grown up in an era where there was no internet. My first experience of watching porn was with a few girlfriends where we rented an X rated CD and watched together. That was my first and last encounter with porn in those time where access to internet porn is not available. Nowadays with a click of the mouse, we can access to all kinds of porn video, be it erotica, soft or hardcore porn. Those of you with children, do not be surprised that your kids will have access to internet porn as early as 10 years old.
Many men are watching porn to get aroused while masturbating, to release sexual frustration, boredom, loneliness or stress. There is no serious harm to watch some porn once in a while; in fact, i prescribed watching porn as a homework to a newly wed couple who are not having sex. However, when we are spending hours and hours clicking on different porn site searching for the next video, we might be in for some serious issue. Studies has shown that pornography triggers brain activity in sex addicts in the same way drugs trigger drug addicts.
Our brain crave novelty. With internet porn, just by clicking the mouse, men can access to hundreds of sexy women and watched the different fantasy being played out. Nothing we watch on porn is real, yet we have the fantasy of having the same experience on porn scenes when we are making love with a real woman. Also, after a while, the same type of porn video no longer has an effect on our brain and we are searching for the next porn video that can give us the arousal.
It is possible to overcome addiction to porn, masturbation or even to sex. Have lots of sexual energy does not mean we need to be acting out on our sexual desire but rather how we can harness the energy for our life. My Awaken Ecstasy Session is designed based on your needs; it could be to work on issue that you are experiencing or it could be just to relax and enjoy bliss and pleasure. To know more about tantric ecstasy session, email me or visit www.multiorgasmicmen.com.